Me, at the laptop

Me, at the laptop

Sunday, 30 May 2010

Bad Parents

I would like to start this post by saying none of the following points made refer to either of my parents. I have great parents and I could not wish for better. However the points raised in this post do refer to some parents I know, they will NOT be named, as I have respect for their children.

Bad parents really frustrate me. It is one of very few subjects that causes me to hate someone. I hardly ever use the word hate, I believe it to be very strong. But bad parents deserve it. Comedian Russell Howard once said, and I quote, "Ban your fanny until you can look after what comes out of it." Now, I find my self agreeing 100% with Russell. Obesity is now very common in 2-14 year olds. Is this the fault of the child? Of course not. There is a word in the English language which could stop children eating too much junk food, a word that gives a negative response to any question asked. That word is No. The parents of an obese child are to blame. They can stop their child eating such rubbish. It is simple. And then to blame the government because of junk food adverts, ridiculous.

A child needs love, attention, and care. If a child is unloved, then that child will struggle in life. Most certainly. He or she will constantly be doing things to get attention in the attempt to gain love. I know children who have been abandoned by their own mother, and put through confusion for their whole life. The mother shall remain nameless but I hope she knows how despicable she is. She gave up her child, placed it in the care of the grandparents (which was definately best for the child as the child had love). Then at the age of eight, the mother decided that she wanted her child back, fell pregnant again, loves her newborn so much more than her other child, and is a foul and disgusting person who is always taking, never giving. She makes me feel sick. And, at eight years old, that child knows that her mother does not want her. It is vile.

Other horrific parents, do keep their child, and they do raise them. But they let their child know that they do not want her/him. That is wrong. So very wrong. Why are these people allowed children?

Some perfectly good people, that would make great parents, are unable to make a child. Why can't horrible parents give their child a better life? Why can't they make three people in this world happier? I'll tell you why, money. Children may cost a lot of money, but they bring a lot in as well. Benefits, child support, child maintenance, it all adds up.

This may only be a simple blog, but I feel I touch on subjects that mean a lot to me. And this particular subject is one that many of you can relate to. I beg of you to let your voices be heard about this. Do not allow bad parenting continue, let bad parents know who they are. I promised that I would not name the parents I refered to today, and I stick by that. However, if you do know who I am referring to, please let them know who they are. Thank you

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